Role-playing is a great way to explore new things in a safe environment. It’s also an excellent way to improve intimacy with your partner.
Roleplay can be as simple or complicated as you want it to be, but unless you know where to start – it’s hard to get things going.
So, maybe try some of these out?
1. Dress Up As Your Favourite Anime Character For A Night
Anime and cosplay are making their way into bedrooms all over the world. And why not? It’s a great way to add a bit of fun and fantasy to your sex life.
Eren and Mikasa; Light and Misa, Naruto and Hinata – there are plenty of options available to you. Just make sure you pick an outfit that is comfortable and easy to take off – or not. Whatever you like.
2. Transform Your Bedroom Into A Luxurious Hotel Suite And Play The Part Of The Bellboy And Guest
Bellboy and the guest is a common fantasy you can easily act out in the comfort of your home. One person plays the bellhop, who is professional and attentive. The other person is the guest, who is demanding but also generous with tips. This fantasy can be acted out in a number of ways, depending on what you and your partner are into.
If you’re feeling extra naughty – go to a hotel and really dive into the fantasy.
3. Be Someone’s Personal Assistant For The Night And Make All Their Wildest Dreams Come True
“Miss, I’d like to see those reports on my desk by noon”
“I am terribly sorry Sir, I haven’t started them yet. I’ll take any punishment you deem fit”
Sounds interesting? Well, it could be even better. Be their personal assistant for the night and make all their wildest dreams come true. And yes, this includes sex.
4. Turn Back Time And Channel Your Inner 50s Housewife Complete With Lingerie, Heels And An Apron
Turn cleaning the house into something hot and spicy.
Put on your high heels, your maid outfit, some nice heals, and hope that you don’t make any mistakes cleaning the house, otherwise, you might have to do it all over again after you and your partner make a mess out of the place.
5. Step Into A Different Culture And Pretend To Be Geisha For An Evening Of Mysterious Pleasure
Japanese culture is known for its strict tradition and a strong sense of honour. As a geisha, you will be expected to provide everything your man desires without ever revealing your own wants or needs.
Wearing a traditional kimono and with your face painted white, you will serve him tea and snacks before leading him into the bedroom for a night of passionate sex.
6. Roleplay As Different Types Of Animals Or Creatures
With Easter around the corner and Magic Motion Inc. offering you app-controlled sex toys you can enter the Eastern Bunny fantasy. You could both be bunnies, or one of you could be a bunny and the other could be their handler. Using an APP-controlled vibration Plug is a great way to get into some light BDSM if that’s something you’re interested in exploring.
If you want to keep things interesting, you can always roleplay as different types of animals with each new holiday. We hear turkeys are very popular come November.
7. Tap Into Your Mischievous Side With A Schoolgirl/Teacher Fantasy
Schoolgirl fantasy is one of the most popular ones. Even Michael Scott did it. Although we highly doubt his hairy chest looked good in a little schoolgirl dress.
Either way, principal and student, student and the teacher, detention, forgotten homework – you can play out plenty of school fantasies and never run out of them. Just let your imagination run wild. You’ll have fun!
8. Incorporate Handcuffs And Play Out A Prison Guard/Inmate Scene
If you really want to spice things up, a prison guard and an inmate having taboo fun is a very popular roleplay scene. It’s common knowledge prisoners are deprived of the human touch, so you’ll be the one calling the shots in this fantasy.
As far as we’re concerned, it was about time that those handcuffs end up on his hands – not yours.
Pro tip – If you really want to get into this scene – no sex for a week. Make your man beg for it.
9. Roleplay As Strangers Who Meet For The First Time And Have Sex Right Away
Does Clive Bixby ring a bell? If Phil and Clair, America’s most homey, white picket fence-like couple can make their Valentine’s day spicy – so can you.
Go out to a bar and pretend you don’t know each other. Make it your mission to go home with each other that night – even though you don’t know one another. It’ll get your blood pumping.
10. Play Out A Scene From Your Favourite Movie Or Book
One of the best ways to add a bit of spice to your life is to role-play a scene from your favorite erotic movie or book. Whether you and your partner are fans of the classics or you’re looking to get a little modern-naughty, recreating a memorable moment can be an incredibly fun experience.
11. Take Out The Baby Oil And See Where The Sensual Massage Takes You
This is one of the most popular roleplay ideas – and for good reason!
It can be incredibly erotic to give or receive a sensual massage while your partner is blindfolded. Not only does it heighten their senses, but it also allows you to explore their body in a new and exciting way.
12. Switching Up The Roles Can Add An Extra Level Of Passion To Your Relationship
Maybe you role play as yourself – but you switch roles? For example, you could be the dominant one usually but submit to your partner this time. This can help you to understand what it’s like to let go and feel vulnerable during sex.
Who knows, maybe you figure out something new about yourself doing this? Figuring yourself out is the key to keeping the sex life spicy for a long time.
If you’re looking for ways to spice up your life, role play might be the answer. These twelve ideas are a great place to start, but don’t stop there – get creative and have fun with it!
Explore different aspects of your personality, learn new things about yourself and others, and add some excitement to your sex life!