Probably a lot of you guys don’t know how to talk to girls and get them attracted. Yes, it is possible to get her into a conversation, have some nice chit chat and make her your friend. But do you actually know how to use those right words to start that spark and create the highest level of interest and attraction?
According to Sociotelligence, it’s not just about the words you deliver and exert but it is also about the intent and confidence of how you deliver yourself and other things.
You are probably looking for the secret and best way of talking to a girl. Well, this would not just mean talking to them but creating a big impact that would leave footprints. So they could at least be hooked up and find interest in hanging out with you for the second time.
Okay, let me give you some ideas on how you can get a girl hooked up with you by just starting a conversation. Here are some basic points to remember especially if it’s your first time talking to them:
Be Confident and Conversational
Being confidence means having the initiative to start that small talk and getting her interests. You need to be more confident in asking the right questions for the conversation to begin with. A person who is confident enough to talk about natural things under the sun would most likely build a good connection and once a good connection is built through those interesting topics during small talk, everything would follow.
Eye contact is important especially if you wanted her to feel that you are sincere with what you’re saying. This would make her feel that you’re not playing around and just playing it safe.
Good Sense of Humor
A lot of girls nowadays don’t look at physical appearance but they’re looking into a person’s sense of humor and how you can make them laugh. A good company will always be the number one stepping stone if you wanted that connection to be more intense. Making a girl laugh at all times especially during small talks will actually create a positive connection between you both as she would enjoy your company.
Girls would really love to hear good compliments about them especially during conversations but not to the point where they would feel that you’re already playing around. Put some limitations as well and know your boundaries when delivering these compliments.
Well, these are just the basics of talking to a girl. There are a lot of ways on how you can get them and be more attracted with you but believe me, starting a good conversation and knowing what questions to ask girls will create spark and connection to you both. And yes, of course, confidence will always be the key to a girl’s interest.
Follow and know her interest and I can assure you that it will be the start of a better friendship that would lead to a better and intense relationship.