There are definitely not many people who receive such a chance to meet Queen Elizabeth II, the most influential figurehead of the United Kingdom, and the longest ruling monarch in its history. For those are lucky enough, meeting The Queen could potentially be quite an intimidating experience. Although there are no obligatory and strict codes of behavior when one meets a member of the The Royal Family, most of the people want to observe, learn, and follow the traditional norms. This is more than understandable. Therefore, following are nine things to consider and follow if you ever get a chance to meet Queen Elizabeth II.
Contents
- 9. What should you wear to the meeting?
- 8. When should you go to the meeting?
- 7. What should you call “The Queen”?
- 6. Should you bow or not?
- 5. Do you shake hands with The Queen?
- 4. Can you touch The Queen, perchance?
- 3. What should you talk about with The Queen?
- 2. What should you never do?
- 1. What should you definitely do?
9. What should you wear to the meeting?
You should definitely go with formal clothing, preferably some of neutral tones and a modest design. Basically, you should not wear something that will overshadow the outfit of The Queen. Forget about bright colors, unnecessary showing of skin, or something offbeat. For a special occasion like this one, you must how respect to Her Royal Highness and opt for an elegant and sophisticated look.
8. When should you go to the meeting?
You should always be on time, especially when meeting the Queen of England! There is also a general courtesy to always arrive earlier than your host. You are the one who should be waiting for The Queen, not vice-versa.
7. What should you call “The Queen”?
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Remember that you should never address The Queen as “The Queen”. Her official title is “Queen Elizabeth”, however you are also never supposed to call her this either. The right way to address her is “Your Majesty”, followed by “Ma’am”. At the end of your meeting, you will end by using “Your Majesty” again.
6. Should you bow or not?
Surprisingly, and to the amazement of many, this is not included in the general protocol of meeting The Queen. However, it is an appropriate gesture to perform, especially a small bow. When ladies are meeting Her Majesty, they usually do a traditional curtsy. On the other side, gentlemen perform a small and gentle bow from the neck.
5. Do you shake hands with The Queen?
You are allowed to follow your bow or curtsy with a handshake. The thing to keep in mind here is to never offer your hand first. You can only shake your hand with The Queen if she puts her hand up first. During the handshake, do not hold her hand too firmly.
4. Can you touch The Queen, perchance?
Never touch The Queen at any time, not even by accident. The handshake is the only appropriate physical contact, and a no-touch policy is to be obeyed. You should also walk behind her at all times and adjust your movement speed according to hers. Michelle Obama, the ex-FLOTUS, is someone important enough to break this protocol and get away with a hug.
3. What should you talk about with The Queen?
When it comes to talking, you should smile, be pleasant, and let her talk. Starting a conversation with against the protocol, and so is changing the topic while.
2. What should you never do?
Because you are there in order to meet one of the most influential people today, you should never:
Turn your back on her
Gaze away
Make selfies and ask for photos and autographs
Walk in front of her
Leave before her
Ask personal or political questions
1. What should you definitely do?
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On the contrary, you should absolutely do these things:
If you are in a group, form a semi-circle while greeting her
Be empty-handed
Let her take the lead
Always mile
Source: brightside.me
