Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place? Have you ever had to bite your lip or cover your mouth with your hand, stifling a moan of pure sexual satisfaction?
Few people have.
Public sexual stimulation isn’t a new concept. Most people know about it or could imagine it if you told them about it, but it’s not something that most people would be willing to try.
However, the people who have tried it say that the rush is amazing. It’s the suspense, the adrenaline that comes from having to keep their arousal and pleasure hidden, even as people walk past them or sit near them in a movie theater, restaurant, or train.
For those who have tried public sexual stimulation, that rush is irresistible. They have to keep coming back for more.
Anal pleasure is another bold step in the world of sexual stimulation. Many people go their whole lives without taking the plunge. But not exploring rear pleasure means that you’re leaving half of the sexual satisfaction your body can experience untapped, unexplored, and unenjoyed.
Butt plugs are the perfect toys to explore both of these exciting fronts. They’re quiet, discreet, and pack an immense amount of anal pleasure into a small, convenient, and adorable package.
Did we pique your interest?
Then keep reading. In this guide, we’ll show you how to wear a butt plug in public, and how to enjoy the worlds of thrilling public stimulation and anal pleasure for yourself.
1. Is it Safe to Wear a Butt Plug in Public?
Butt plugs are generally considered safe sex toys.
However, you should remember these tips:
- Use water-based lube to make insertion and removal easy and painless.
- Remove the butt plug in a private location if you feel pain or discomfort.
- Choose locations that allow some discretion, and are safe places to be alone in. Like libraries, movie theaters, restaurants, etc. Parks can be dangerous.
2. Choose the Right Butt Plug for You
The world of butt plugs is wide, varied, and undeniably exciting. But it can also be overwhelming to a newcomer.
Luckily, we’re here to help!
Let’s start things off with the classic. The OG butt plug has a tapered, conical shape with a flat, wide base that prevents it from slipping too deeply into the anal cavity.
We recommend starting off with a classic butt plug if you’ve never tried one before.
If you’re feeling a little more adventurous, we recommend a butt plug with an additional feature, like a vibrating butt plug.
Vibrating butt plugs are perfect for public sexual stimulation, as they provide steady, intense, and varied stimulation that can often be controlled with a remote or an app for an interactive sex game on a romantic, public date.
If vibrating butt plugs sound interesting to you, we recommend Habiki, a hollow, remote-controlled vibrating butt plug. With 9 vibration modes, it’s perfect for beginners and anal pleasure pros alike.
If you’re feeling a little more adventurous, Cockscrew is a perfect step up. With a twisting shape, a soft silicone body, a remote control, and a removable bullet vibrator for stimulating another area on your body (or your partner), Cockscrew is a versatile tool built for anal pleasure.
For bolder anal explorers, there’s nothing better than Agas, a butt plug that doesn’t just vibrate, but also thrusts inside your anal cavity to replicate the feeling of amazing anal sex. It’s also remote-controlled, letting you enjoy public sex games to your heart’s (and your butt’s) content.
3. Try it Out at Home
Before you do anything in a public setting, it’s best to familiarize yourself with your butt plug in a safe, private setting.
Try out all the butt plug’s features and do things like walking, sitting, and going up and down stairs carefully. Remember, you should never wear a butt plug while doing anything strenuous like exercise.
Doing this will teach you how to prepare for wearing a butt plug in public.
4. Be Gentle and Patient
Like any new experience, wearing butt plugs in public can take some getting used to. Be patient with yourself, and allow your body to get accustomed to the new feelings and new pleasure.
Remember, if you feel uncomfortable or if you feel sharp and constant pain, you should remove the butt plug and, if the pain continues, you should go see a medical professional.
You should always insert sex toys with water-based lubes made specifically for sex.
5. Pick the Right Place
Now we’re getting to the fun part. Here, you’ll discover whether or not you can take the suspense of enjoying sexual stimulation in public.
For your first outing, you should choose places that give you a bit of discretion. Restaurants are great for this because their tables, especially ones with mantles, can hide the lower part of your body.
Movie theaters are great too, because you’ll be in a dark, loud place where everyone will be focused on the action on the screen.
6. Be Discreet
The funniest part of public sexual stimulation is the suspense that comes from trying to keep your composure, even while orgasming.
Control your breathing, fan your face, bite your lips, and cover your mouth with your hand to hide the moans.
Are you a good enough actor to talk to a waiter without them knowing you’re experiencing amazing anal pleasure? You’ll soon find out!
7. How to Prevent the Butt Plug from Slipping
Remember when we recommended that you try your butt plug at home? At home, you can see what kinds of movements can lead to the butt plug slipping out.
Try to avoid going up long flights of stairs, especially steep ones. Try to avoid crouching, reaching down, squatting, jumping, or running or jogging.
8. Respect the Public
Public sexual stimulation is great because it’s a secret game. The whole point is to enjoy sexual pleasure without anyone knowing. Remember to respect other people’s rights. Moaning loudly or screaming in pleasure could make many people uncomfortable.
If you feel the urge to moan, you should retreat to a private setting like a bathroom stall.
So there you have it!
Remember to take things slow, be patient, and try things out in safer places before moving to more public locations.