If you are eager to spice things up in the bedroom there are plenty of things to try.
Many people use toys like love plugs to inject a bit of fun into their sex lives. If this doesn’t tickle your fancy read a few related stories that may inspire you.
1. We Had Intercourse in Public
We waited for it to get dark and then took our blankets and sleeping bags with the intention to have sex out on the soccer field of my husband’s elementary school. The thrill of being caught, the outdoor air breeze over our bodies that were naked, along with the bike path which had recently been built about 3 feet from where we decided to get it on.
Thank goodness the biker that rode past just as we were getting started had a good laugh and shouted “Have fun. Guys!” I am convinced my husband’s erection disappeared as quickly as the biker did.
2. My Husband Put Me in Restraints
I have always enjoyed being restrained or tied up. The issue is I have also been a brat about this and insist on escaping from every type of tie-up that my husband has ever used on me. I yell at him you are a damn eagle scout, try harder. To get back at me, he purchased Velcro cuffs to use on my wrists and my ankles, that he hides under the mattress of our bed. I thought to myself that this was one of his best moves yet.
3. My Husband Spanked the Hell Out of Me
I can still remember the very first time my husband gave me a spanking. It can be described as a serious tap, which left me thinking maybe he saw a spider on my buttocks? Here is my tip about spanking. To begin with, the spankee has to want it, while the spanker needs to be aware of their strength. You should also use a safe word.
Years later after our first spanking session that was serious, I still yearn for it similar to any of the other types of sexual acts. It has something to do with the adrenaline caused by physical pain along with complete trust that he will never really hurt me. This means, don’t go around letting strangers spank you. That is just unsafe, and probably illegal in some way or another. The most alluring part about spanking is the trust that you have in your partner so that you can enjoy it and its done right.
4. We Had Anal Sex
From a quote from one of my good friends: “My butt is for special occasions, like, Happy Anniversary, babe! Here is my butthole” Anal is linked to massive stigma, and I understand cause I used to subscribe to this for more than 2 decades. Anal sex is not classified as one of those enjoyable daily indulgences. On most occasions, you might not feel like having this sensitive part touched in any way.
Yet, the feeling is intense and unique, and I enjoy it from time to time. Just be aware that lube is incredibly important for this act. Until you feel like you are using your lube in excess, you still are not probably using enough. Anal sex can be fun, so forget about the stigma and have some fun.
5. We Have Threesomes
This is not something for the amateurs. And if you are already in an unstable relationship, this is one of the quickest ways to ruin it. However, if you are in a very comfortable relationship with a person that you can negotiate and discuss everything to the very last detail, a threesome can be awesome.
Trust me when I say, all the expectations, awkward conversations, and the details well beforehand will contribute to making the experience a lot more pleasurable. Communication is vital, be specific and do not become shy, all three of you are going to get naked together. It is also important to let everyone involved know about which holes will be off-limits.
6. We Watch Graphic Porn Together
You need to be in a very honest relationship to view porn together. This is because in all likelihood what you like might be different from what your lover prefers. For example, when my husband first showed me one of his favorite scenes, my face was plastered with a massive “Holy shit”; expression.
All of a sudden I started believing my husband was just interested in riding me around like a horse around a mansion that is abandoned. But instead of telling him that I thought it was really weird. I decided to ask questions about what he enjoyed about it because I know we saw things differently. If you are open to trying new things in a relationship, you both need to be vulnerable and open-minded.
7. We Read Erotic Books Together
50 Shades of Grey was the first of these books that got our attention. Smut has been in the making for many years and there are way many more books that are far better than the story of Ana and Christian. It was from reading these smutty novels that I made the decision that I would like to experiment with anal sex.
While I enjoy narratives that surround these sexual encounters, my husband on the other hand only needs to know what I want from him after reading one of these novels. So even though I read the entire story, I will give him a few kinky highlights to think about while rubbing myself against him. And here is another tip, there are now even smut novels that make using condoms part of sexy foreplay, which I feel is erotic literature.