Ladies, don’t sleep on the power of the finger, or two. You know how it goes down when you give yourself a little DJ action. Just imagine how things could be if you give your man’s hands a whirl. Fingering is basic as f*ck just off the strength of it being something you probably did in grade school, but there are more ways to make things a bit intense. I’ve got tips, so grab your man, his hands, and get down to business.

First thing’s first: Before he goes anywhere near your body, make sure his nails are neat and trimmed. Uncut and uncleaned fingernails are gross. They can cut you, and if dirty, cause infections. And if you’re a germophobe like I am and don’t trust his hands no matter how many times he’s washed them, I suggest getting finger cots. They’re like condoms for fingers and you can find them at your local drug store. Now, on to finger tricks your man should use that will have you coming in minutes.

1. Tease it

Have your man slide his fingers up and down your vagina from your clit to your opening. This will wet his fingers and get you ready for them to go inside. But before he goes full throttle, have him tease you by dipping into your vagina and quickly withdrawing his fingers.

2. Get the clit

Before any insertion, make sure he shows love to your clitoris. With countless nerve endings, it’s the most powerful spot on your body so it’s the perfect place to start to get you ready for what’s to come next.

Take his fingers (preferably index and middle) and have him rub your clit in a circular motion. As your moans get more intense, he should kick the speed up a notch. Just be sure he doesn’t go too fast where he loses the rhythm of you two.

3. Give it the finger

The middle finger, that is. Using his middle finger gives thrusts more control and steadiness. Plus, it’s one of the thicker fingers, so it’ll fill you up better than the others.

Have him kneel in front of your vag for more control. If you want the speed of his thrusts to increase, don’t worry about losing rhythm. With the middle finger, he can give it to you hard and fast without losing balance.

4. Find the G

Once he’s inside of you and you’re really into it, the next step is to find your G-Spot. Your G-spot is located 2-3 inches up the front of your vaginal wall. Every woman is different so it may take your man some time to find yours.

Once he finds your G, your man should insert both his index and middle fingers inside of you. Then, have him make a “come hither” motion with both fingers. Build up the speed of thrusts depending on how it feels for you.

5. Add Anal

Anal stimulation gives off one of the most intense orgasms one can experience. If you want your butt to get some attention, make sure you communicate with your man on how slow, how fast, how hard, or how soft you want it back there. There should be no surprises.

6. Add the other hand

While one hand is stroking your vagina, have your man use his other hand to massage your clit or your anus. Multitasking is key. Take his hand and lead it where you want it to go.

Original by Ashlee Miller