Have you met someone special? Do you think this may be it, but you don’t know your partner very well? When you meet someone new, you have to be careful, especially if you haven’t known that person for a long time. In this text, we are going to tell you what things you should check about your partner, and also how to build a healthy relationship.
A lot of people find it difficult to open up to someone. That process requires time and patience. Upon meeting and starting to fall for someone, the first thing you’d want to check is whether your partner has a criminal record or problems with drugs. Don’t be alarmed, a criminal record doesn’t have to mean that your potential partner is a murderer or a thief. Arrest records may be traffic related such as driving under influence or speeding. These records are public and you can check them online, on different websites such as instantcheckmate.com. Arrest records will provide you with biographical information; criminal classification i.e. whether the crime is classified as a misdemeanor or felony as well as information about fines your partner had to pay and also if there was any additional arrest or a pending hearing. Another important thing to know is that arrest record is different from criminal conviction records. If one has arrest records it doesn’t necessarily mean that he did something illegal. Maybe one was just in the wrong place, at a wrong time. In addition, having an arrest record doesn’t mean that one was found guilty of a crime.
Did your potential partner check out? Yes? That’s great! Now, let’s talk about some other questions you have to ask your significant other to make sure that he or she is your soulmate. There are a number of interesting questions that will give you insights into your partner’s personality. You can ask which famous person they would like to have dinner with, what in life they are most grateful for, what they would do if they knew it’s their last day on Earth and so on. These questions are appealing and amusing and you should answer them together with your partner. Not only will you have a pleasant and refreshing conversation but you will also get a chance to get to know each other in an unusual manner. However, you shouldn’t discuss all these questions in one sitting. You can discuss one question every night, during dinner, every weekend or every car ride home, you choose. In a way, these questions will make you vulnerable, because, in order to answer them honestly, you will have to open up to your partner. In the end, you will know about your partner’s values, motivations, and goals in life, and he will know yours too. Furthermore, you will get an insight into your hypothetical life as a married couple. You will get to compare your attitudes towards raising a family, finances, and career.
To conclude, as we all know, meeting someone new is exciting but at the same time, it can be challenging. You want to be certain that that person is worthy of you which makes it okay to check up and investigate that person.