Lock it down!
Finding someone you want to spend your life with is something extremely special. That’s why even the thought of them cheating can be absolutely heartbreaking. Cheating is a devastating misuse of trust and often means the end of a relationship, but, the truth is, it happens. And it’s not rare.
So how do you avoid this ever happening? Even though some people are just bound to cheat, most people will stay faithful in the right situations. Here are ways to guarantee that your partner won’t cheat… If they have enough of you, they won’t go looking anywhere else!
Get it on regularly
Because there are hormonal responses that happen during sex that can bond you to your partner more intimately, one of the most important ways to avoid a partner cheating is simply to make sure that they don’t have reasons to look anywhere else (or to any one else) to meet their needs. In fact, one study of newly married couples showed that people who had sex regularly were less likely to cheat.
Tell them when you want it
If you’ve been in a relationship for a long time, you know that hoping that your partner will read your mind is a lost cause. That’s why it’s important to tell them when you’re feeling turned on. This is vital for keeping an active sex life, but it also reminds your partner that you’re attracted to them and keeps the spark going.
Talking things out with your partner, making agreements, and making sure you two are both on the same page are great ways to keep communication in your relationship healthy. Staying knowledgable about where your SO’s head is at and respecting his or her mind is a good way to make sure that stepping out won’t even cross your partner’s thoughts.
Keep it interesting
Everyone has specific things that they find attractive, sexy, and romantic. For some people, these might be more personal and unique than others. Make sure that you know what your partner is specifically turned on by and work together to make it happen, in the bedroom or outside of it.
Let fantasies run
Many people have secret fantasies that they think are so “out there” that they don’t want to ever bring it up. In truth, you’re not alone.
If you’re dating someone, you already have a lot in common. You may have fantasies in common as well! Talk it out with your partner to see what gets you turned on the most, no matter how weird. That way, they know they can go to you for their wildest fantasies.
Talk about solo play
Even if you’re in a sexually satisfying relationship, it’s normal to have some solo play and masturbation involved as well. It’s important to know how your partner gets themself off because it’s a good look into exactly what they like.
Show them you want them
If you’ve been with your partner for a long time, both of your bodies have changed with the years. Sometimes, this can be demoralizing and lead to feeling less than sexy. Make sure that your partner knows that you want them all the time, keeping it flirty, and even hitting on them like you’re trying to score a first date.
Try something new
It’s not all about the bedroom. Even though trying new things in the sack is helpful, make sure that you’re spicing everything in your life up! Try new hobbies, watch movies you never thought you’d watch, or plan a vacation to somewhere new.
Flirt Like You Just Met!
One of the best ways to keep your partner knowing that you’re interested and care about them is to flirt like you just met them! Let them know that your feelings are as strong as they were when you first got together, and they’re less likely to go wandering. Nothing kills a relationship like complacency!
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Original by Dru Marie Allen