Have you ever wondering who the biggest cheater in the Zodiac circle is? Or perhaps, who is the most frequent one when it comes to cheating, the smartest and hardest to catch, or which horoscope sign is truly emotionally unstable and utterly unable to resist the romantic challenge? Let us find out and see how the planetary alignments shape the mind of a cheater and what aspects are moving people toward infidelity.
The greatest horoscope cheaters
The matters of love are under the rulership of the planet Venus. But the issues of communication, manipulation, twists, turns, offers, and sales, are all under the direct influence of the planet Mercury. This planet rules over two Zodiac signs: Gemini and Virgo. But, the Virgos are known as people who need to double-check every bit of information around them to know for sure, while for the Twins, anything goes.
So, in general terms, Gemini Sun or Moon placements can show someone prone to cheating and not just cheating per se, but also someone who is clever and skilled at playing never-ending love games and ensuring he or she won’t get caught. Now, don’t get annoyed with this fact because I know many Gemini people who are very angry whenever they read that “Gemini is unfaithful, unstable, changeable, this or that…”
You should be aware of the fact that each person is unique, with unique planetary placements, so take the above statement with the grain of salt, just like you would do with Aquarius, which holds second place among cheaters.
Cheating styles in a horoscope
The sign of Gemini portrays someone who is a natural-born player, and someone who can get in and out of any situation, including leading a double romantic life. On the other side, Aquarius is the sign that doesn’t respect the “old” norms, and this is why the “age of Aquarius” is announced as the time in human history that will erase the borders and traditional morals regarding the “sacred marriage” between two people.
In the mind of Aquarius, this is not called “cheating,” but exploring all possibilities life has to offer, and this is why this sign doesn’t feel guilt or shame if caught in those types of activities. And interesting to note, the area of love for the sign of Aquarius is placed right there in the sign of Gemini.
The third sign on the list is Virgo. Yes, the influence of Mercury is strong here too. Still, in this Zodiac sign, the infidelity is planned very cautiously, and there are almost no clues or traces left behind, and therefore everything is tough to prove. In this case, and if you are a woman in this particular relationship, in the beginning, you will have to rely solely on your inner feelings and then act accordingly.
The sign that shows similar traits to Aquarius is, surprisingly, Sagittarius. Yes, this Zodiac sign is known for its high spiritual and educational pursuits. Still, at the same time, the Archer can be someone who loves to taste the irresistible “joys” of life, and this is why this sign usually doesn’t cheat for a long time, as Sagittarius loses the interest fast.
And lastly, the “I don’t know why” type of cheater is someone with Sun or Moon placed in the sign of Pisces. This is someone who doesn’t plan at all, rather someone who accepts the things or events happening to him or her. One sudden glance in someone’s eye, the unexpected smile or “it was just the wild party at the hotel, and then we somehow ended in one of the rooms” are situations that can quickly happen. This person won’t even think about the moral consequences of their act, confessing that everything took place without his or her conscious acceptance. Also, with this sign, you will never know where something happened just once and honestly didn’t mean a thing, or if it’s something that will turn into a dramatic, poetic and surely destined love.
How to recognize the cheater using the horoscope
I know the lines above are all generalizations, and you shouldn’t judge anyone just by the placement of their Sun or Moon. As an astrologer, I have to warn you to consider the whole chart you are analyzing, as well as the age of a person, and if in partnership, the overall compatibility or partner’s natal charts.
So, someone might not be so faithful at an early age, and in general terms, this applies more to men than women. However, when a person reaches a certain age and emotionally matures, the need to bond with someone long-term will become stronger, and playing all sorts of games won’t interest that person anymore. Themes like family and career success will naturally become way more important, and this type of person will look at the possible affair as something where “I’ve been there and done that,” and successfully in most cases, avoid the trap that might ruin his or her reputation and “happily ever after”.
And there are also some cases where someone who is usually considered a cheater finds the perfect partner to match up with, and those “cheating” planetary aspects are being transformed in an ideal love relationship and used for shrewd business, not romantic games. There are some cases, and although rare, they exist.
Cheater in astrology
Here are some simple astrology rules on how to recognize the cheater from the natal chart. First of all, you have to look at the aspects the person’s natal Venus makes with Uranus or Neptune. If those two or three planets form the opposition, square or conjunction, then this person won’t be able to have a stable relationship, like in the case regarding contacts with Uranus, or this person won’t be able to resist temptation due to an illusion created by the presence of Neptune.
The same or similar rules apply if the person’s natal Venus is “attacked” by the transiting Uranus or Neptune because the active periods when those aspects are in play will determine the time frame of someone’s sudden or unexpected urge for infidelity.
However, the primary aspect of a cheater is the square aspect between Moon and Venus, as this shows that the person’s emotions and the sense of pleasure conflict. This conflict is usually shown as the school example in astrology, as someone who publicly states the high moral values and the importance of family, but secretly seeks “side-help” from a prostitute.
Mercury, of course, in a square or opposition with the Moon and especially Neptune, describes a person who has very loose moral values and can twist and turn those values at any point and without any guilt.
Besides those significant aspects, the square, opposition or conjunction of Moon and Neptune shows someone truly talented in fine arts and inspired by great spiritual quests, but also someone who is unconsciously prone to high instability regarding their love life. This is the case with the “artistic type” of love, where anything goes and usually does. Novels and music during the whole of human history are written from those experiences, but this is something far from a stable and trustworthy love and family life.
In general terms, there are no simple rules on how to recognize the cheater solely from the astrology chart or from any source for that matter. I’ve had so many clients facing those issues, and there were no two identical stories. When someone young meets a cheater in a relationship, my advice is always to move on and find a better future with someone who will prove to be a trustworthy partner.
However, when the cheating happens in a committed relationship or official marriage, especially when children and properties are involved, and a prenup wasn’t signed, as it often happens, then I strongly advise checking the charts and transits and then decide accordingly. In many cases, and especially when men are cheaters, this affair or a single episode was just a physical type of experience and, although it will take some time for partners to build up mutual trust, many marriages are worth saving with a lot of respect, mutual understanding, and love.
Every story is a unique example. If you had to deal with those situations, I sincerely hope you overcame them by becoming more robust, wiser, and leading a healthier life after the initial shock, deep pain, and the final resolution took place.
We are born to be able to go through and experience different things in our lives, but our free will, strength, determination, and pure emotions will decide how the future will look. So, whatever happens to you, remember to keep your heart and soul clean from hatred, and you will surely pass this test of life. For more information, you can check AnnaKovach.com.