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Why Adult Toys Are Commonly Considered a Taboo Item for Men

by Wendy Stokes March 11, 2021
by Wendy Stokes March 11, 2021

Talking about sexual pleasures in the 21st century is nowhere near as controversial as it used to be. Several decades ago, the sexuality and pleasures people enjoyed were considered taboo topics and nobody really openly talked about them. However, we are currently living in an age of inclusiveness and differences where everyone and everything is excepted as long as it does not hurt anybody or as long as it is legal.

For example, the topic of adult toys that are commonly used in the bedroom used to be a very sensitive topic for the majority of the population. Used by women in around 99% of situations, they were viewed as toys for ladies who are either lonely and lack a partner, or those who are sexually deviant and perverted. In 2023, the use of these products is not only socially acceptable but completely normal and adopted. Women of all aged openly talk about it and share their experiences online and in person.

The only problem that is still persistent is the use of adult toys by men. Why is it that this is still taboo, or rather, why do aren’t men equal when sex toys are the topic? We are after all living in the age of equality after all where there are numerous movements constantly preaching for equality among all people no matter their sexual orientation, race, gender, nationality, or physical look? In this article, we will try to answer the question of why adult toys are still commonly considered a taboo item for guys. To find out more about them and browse for your next toy, make sure to check out Mailovedoll.

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Women Find It Odd

The most dominant reason why women prefer toys more than men is the fact that they require more to pleasure themselves, so to speak. Guys are more open about pleasuring themselves, or masturbating, while women have always been more reluctant to share their experiences or even admit to doing or not doing it. Then came the toys are they finally had more options to feel satisfied on their own. Now though, when a guy expresses the wish to try a toy, they find it weird or even horrifying that they need a toy when they are capable of doing all they need on their own.

In numerous studies, women admitted that they would prefer their partners did not have their own toys. Many do not even like using toys when they are intimate as a couple to pleasure their partner, only themselves. This, when paired with the fact that women brag about using vibratos and other toys to their female friends, gives us a sort of double standard. Men are ridiculed by women if they happen to mention they enjoy some toys or similar things, and then other men also make fun of them. What we then have is a cycle in which men are rendered strange if they use male sex toys, while women are viewed as normal and progressive.

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The Difference in Toys

One more reason why men’s sex toys are still taboo is because the ideal product most of them want are blowup or even lifelike dolls that resemble live women. All women need is something like a vibrator that stimulates the right places and that is it. Why do men need a whole fake body and not just a toy in the shape of lady parts? They exist too but they are nowhere as popular as full size dolls of various body proportions and sizes. When a man cannot find a suitable partner, they decide to try these over the top toys too easily and become addicted to them in a way. They have unrealistic expectations based on their fantasies and them expect their partners to be just like their toys. This is impossible of course and not normal, which is why most guys who brag about their use of such products are still ridiculed and looked down on.

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They are Still Popular

However, those who enjoy the toys do not care for the stigma one bit. Men who like them still buy and use them, evident by the jump in sales of around 1,000%. Yes, you read that right. Within the last decade, that is how much the sales of sex toys for men jumped. This is largely due to the advances in materials used to make the toys, as well as the great amount of customization and advanced options that now exist. Attachments of all sorts, warmers and body parts in the shape of popular adult film stars, it is all a thing nowadays. Naturally, men want to try them out just like the ladies want to enjoy their own alone time with some cool, satisfying toys.

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Take a Look at an Average Study

According to one study from a few years ago conducted on 5,000 men, 51% of them owned at least one sex toy they considered theirs and not their partner’s or joint. Rings are the most popular ones, followed by fleshlights, massagers, and pumps. Next, 78% said that they would be willing to buy themselves a sex toy for solo use. Out of those 5,000, over 70% believe they should be able to buy whatever toy they like without feeling embarrassed due to the public stigmas and taboos. Only 4% claimed that sex toys for men are weird and that they are not interested in all.

This confirms the theory that equality is necessary when the adult bedroom toys market is concerned. The guys want it, and the fact they feel normal, satisfied, and happy with them should make the women okay with it. Everyone can partake in the experience and share recommendations. The above mentioned study also found that 69% of guys would be happy to have their partner use male sex toys on them, and 60% have already used sex toys on their female partners. There is no room for any holdups anymore and the taboo is seriously overdue to be busted once and for all.

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