In the current state we live in (aka Lockdown) we as single women cannot get very close to people who are not already in our households. This has an extreme impact on our personal sex lives… or lack thereof this year. Finding a regular sex partner is harder now than it has ever been in over a century since our last pandemic. We are all lacking that sense of touch of another who is not currently in our own households. If you are in a relationship you may be getting bored by this time because every day seems like a groundhog day movie with your significant other. Sexting is not only the safest way to get your sexual needs met but it comes with some extremely positive mental health results. Let’s take a deep dive into how sexting can improve your sex life today. Both for single ladies and those who are currently coupled up.
Single Status
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Sexting for singles is a carefree way to feel closer to new people outside of your home safely. Not only because we are still in Lockdown worldwide and cannot travel with ease, but also because it’s an excellent way to get to know someone. When you have a better understanding of a person’s sexual desires you can better determine if they could be a good match for you in real life. Why wait to go on dates when you can really flesh out (pun intended) the sexual capacity of a potential playmate? You’re single for a reason, you’re not looking to jump into a relationship, you want something fun first and foremost then see where that takes you.
If a man can make you cum by solely texting you all the right words that match up with your sexual needs and desires then you know he just might be worthy of your time. Explore trust, boundaries, consent, and kink levels first before you commit to anything in person. How sexy is it to know everything your potential match wants before you even meet them? This is a high form of Erotica, where you play with your minds before you play with your bodies together.
It’s been scientifically proven that every time you receive a text message you get a hit of dopamine. In stressful times sexting can help ease some of the woes that come with our day-to-day lives. The anticipation of what he may say next is a healthy way to feel adventurous. Slip into a fantasy curated by you and only you. Get to know yourself better by sharing/discovering new sexual desires with someone else. You can even do so anonymously! We all want to feel wanted, that is the human condition. Therefore it’s time to let your inner freak flag fly ladies, you have nothing to lose from sexting and everything to gain.
Couples Sexting
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The hottest part about being in a relationship can sometimes be when you are apart. A little bit of distance never hurts anyone and reaffirms your autonomy. Does your partner travel for work? Are they in a different city? Do you live in the same household? Sexting is a way to keep your sex life intriguing rather than the monotony of predictable sexual positions when you have been together long term. Stretch your mind more than your body to make your relationship go the distance.
One of the hottest things you can do when your partner is home is to tell them to go into another room of the house. Everyone has a second room even if you live in a tiny studio apartment you have a bathroom, use it to your advantage in this scenario. It’s time to get creative with how you play out your kinks. Have your partner go into the bathroom/second room of your home. Don’t tell them why, keep them on their toes and tell them to have an open mind. I guarantee you any man you are with worth your time will take your direction. Make sure they take their phone and let the sexting session begin. Instead of acting out sex in real life, make each other excited by sexting all the things you want to do to each other in your fantasy.
If your partner is away from home use sexting as a way to stay close and please each other when you cannot be in the same place. If we are satisfied in our relationships we are much less likely to look for others outside of them. Being sexually satisfied does not always mean you need to have sex. It’s about feeling desired, feeling stimulated, and being intrigued by the person you are with. Sexting is a tool we can use to say the things we may have a hard time speaking aloud. If there are kinky things on your mind you feel shy about speaking to your partner about, sexting is the time to divulge such information. It’s much less intimidating this way.
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Get Paid To Sext
Congratulations, you are now educated on ways to improve your sex life through sexting! Did you know that there’s a way for you to get paid to sext? It’s safe, anonymous, and fun. If you are having fun sexting for free why not get paid for it? You can check out Arousr to see if becoming a chat host is a good fit for your lifestyle. Stay kinky my friends!
