In a society that often tiptoes around discussions of sexuality, it’s time to break the silence and embrace the benefits of owning adult toys as a woman. For far too long, there has been a stigma surrounding these pleasure-enhancing products, but it’s time to challenge societal taboos and explore the empowering aspects they offer. Let’s […]
I am happily engaged to a wonderful man, and we are planning an amazing life together in the years to come. I couldn’t be more excited about how my life has turned out thus far. But over the past year, I have developed an excellent working relationship with someone I have a lot in common […]
Lately I’ve been kind of getting in touch with my kinkier side. Being that I didn’t really have a kinky side before, it’s a big deal for me that I’ve discovered the pleasures of, uh, ass-smacking. Now that it’s kind of my “thing,” I’ve been thinking about other people I know and their “things.” I […]
“Tell me what you want to do to me,” I cooed in Brandon’s* ear. It was our first time in bed together and I was hoping he would pass my “dirty talk test.” The test is simple. I ask the man what he wants to do to me and he responds with his own special […]
In an article from “Men’s Health” a female writer decides to speak for her gender and tell the mostly male readers what women wish they’d do to get them off. Of the 18 fantasies she lists, I concur with six…well, maybe six and a half. The others are just so off-the-mark and absurd, I worry […]
A few months ago, I posted about a list of ”women’s sexual fantasies” that appeared in Men’s Health. I wrote that the majority of the fantasies listed were “so off-the-mark and absurd, I [worried] about men incorporating these fantasies into their sexual routines and turning off women so dramatically that all sex becomes just a fantasy.” Many of you […]
We all know that most of us have a quite busy life and we often forget to dedicate ourselves to spending quality time with our partners. Sure love is there, but neglecting all these little things that are very important to keep your love life interesting is easy. And the result is that fire simply […]
When it comes to sex, we can’t really generalize and categorize things because it looks like everyone is interested in something different. What makes it interesting is that every single person on this planet happens to be “turned on” by some feature in a person, but not all of them will find what they’re looking […]
I read Eliza Jules’ essay “I Obsessively Monitor My Husband’s Lube Bottle” over at xoJane and was left with this question: Is a partner’s masturbation something we should worry about? The more I’ve thought about it, though, the more I’ve concluded that, for me, I’m at the very opposite end of the spectrum as Jules; […]
