Philosophers and thinkers of the world have come up with a number of important rules, by following which you will improve your life. You will make it easier to interact with the outside world. Everything will work out, and you’ll be in a great mood every day.
Let’s find out the ways to improve your life. The rules are simple, the most important thing is to implement them and use them every day.
Don’t Worry About What the Other Person Thinks of You
When you have a dialogue with someone, do it carefully. Choose the right phrases. Don’t say things that can compromise you. Don’t insult the person. Express your opinion however you want (but if it doesn’t agree with what society says, keep it to yourself). You should never worry about what your interlocutor will think. And what he will do in response to what you say.
Try to free your mind from the opinion of others. It will never affect you in a positive way. It can only constrain your will. And make it worse.
Try to be friendly to everyone around you. You’d be surprised at how mirror-like the world is. If you treat people with respect, they will treat you in the same way.
Try this in practice. Hold the door for passersby in the entryway, and don’t close the elevator in front of your nose. Help moms with children lift a heavy stroller, and so on. You will get a similar friendly attitude in return.
A striking example of this is behavior on the roads. If sometimes you will skip a person in your lane (when he urgently needs to change lanes), then the next time you will go to the meeting. If you behave respectfully, they will interact with you in the same way. The only exceptions are those cities that have a low culture of driving. If it’s customary to cut you off and ignore safety rules on the road, no amount of interaction will help. Not even concessions.
Take Care of Your Friends
Treat them with respect. Preserve existing friendships. Help a friend when he is in difficulty by supporting him. Try to make his life better in any way you can. A strong friendship is important.
Don’t shut yourself off from the outside world. Be open to meeting new people. Sometimes in later life, you can find a friend just as good as the one you had before.
Talk to Positive and Active People
In your environment, there should be positive, goal-oriented people. Those who strive to earn money, develop. Participate in sports, and attend various events. For example, hockey and soccer matches, exhibitions, museums and so on.
Such friends will fill you with energy. Make it so that interacting with the outside world will be interesting for you. You will be able to enjoy every day.
Choose a Comfortable Sleeping Routine for Yourself
Some people like to go to bed at 11:00 p.m. and get up at 07:00. Others like to go to bed at 03:00 and wake up at 12:00. Choose a sleep schedule that works for you. Sleep the way you feel comfortable. However, to feel good, you should always follow your routine. Let’s imagine you never go to bed later than 11 p.m. (even if it’s Saturday), but your friends offer you to play baccarat online together till 2 a.m. It’s better to neglect this offer, even if you don’t have any plans for tomorrow. Otherwise, you will wake up completely exhausted and have a strong headache.
However, if you constantly follow your regime, you will gain enough strength. You will have time to perform any tasks you like. As a consequence, it will be possible to cope with the task without unnecessary problems.
Learn New Things
If you find gaps in your knowledge in a certain area, study it. Either on your own, with an Internet search, or in a course.
It’s always necessary to improve your skills. Especially when it comes to professional qualities. If it’s about some ordinary knowledge, you can get it from books. Or by talking to someone who understands them.
Do Only What Your Heart Tells You to Do
It’s imperative that you do what your heart tells you to do. Always solve questions only by filtering your thoughts through it. Of course, it’s necessary to reason from the point of view of logical analysis. But it’s the heart that should make the final decision. Or, as we also call it, intuition.
Accept the Fact That There Is No Perfect People
Don’t demand anything of other people. Every person has their own set of pros and cons. Some have more of the former, some have the latter. Accept in your loved ones both negative and positive character traits. Don’t try to change them. Then life will be easier.
If you are constantly trying to change someone (especially the other half), you are wasting your time. Changing a person is difficult. But it’s easy to ruin a relationship with them.
Try to Agree With the Proposals More Often
They call you to go clubbing, fishing, to the woods or hiking? Don’t rush to refuse – agree!
You can go to such events with your family. Either with the other half or with the kids. Or, if you don’t have anyone, you can go alone.
Try to agree to adventures more often. In this case, it will be more interesting to interact with life. It will be filled with color as you will be charged with positive emotions.
Do What You Like
This is a must. If it isn’t observed, the situation will affect you negatively. It will lead to the fact that you will not enjoy the process of interaction. On the contrary, every day you will be sad. After all, no one likes to do those things that are not enjoyable. They won’t bring success, a great mood. Moreover, they reduce your motivation. Deprive you of the hope of succeeding.
Alcohol and cigarettes are terrible habits. The first one is very destructive because once you acquire it, your life will go downhill. Cigarettes don’t affect the mind but still damage health. They worsen the condition of the lungs and cause shortness of breath and other similar problems.
Don’t Try to Live up to Anyone’s Expectations
It’s highly recommended that you live only for yourself. Don’t try to live up to anyone’s expectations and be good in their eyes. It won’t work anyway.
Man will either consider you good initially or not. In the latter case, no concessions and flirtations to change his opinion won’t work.
Always do only what you want to do. If you have no desire to do something, then do not do it through force. Just to please a certain person. This won’t affect you in a positive way.
Try to interact with the people around you carefully. Then you will be able to live happily.
Don’t Be Afraid to Cry
Tears help release negative emotions. Almost all bad moods are released in just a few minutes. It’s much more effective than trying to improve your mood for hours or even days.
It’s also possible for men to cry. But, naturally, it’s better to do it when no one sees. So that people won’t think anything bad.
In general, you should treat crying solely as a release of emotion. If things are so bad that there are tears, then the bowl of negative mood is overflowing. You urgently need to release the bad emotions.
Sometimes It’s Okay to Be Childish
Even if you’re a grown man, sometimes have fun as a teenager. Try to be childish, to relax. Any way you can earn a good mood.
There are a huge number of ways in which you can cope with the task. For example, you can go to an amusement park, arcades, and paintball. There are a huge number of ways to have fun. Choose the right one for yourself. It will improve your condition and mood.
Enjoy All Kinds of Weather
It’s clear that most people love sunny weather. But to love only it, and arrive in a good mood only under such circumstances – it’s wrong. We advise you to act differently.
Try to love all kinds of weather. Even the rain, snowfall, slush and so on. If you learn to enjoy absolutely any weather, then it will have a positive effect on you. Make it so that you can’t ruin your mood with anything. You can enjoy interacting with the outside world, which will have a positive effect on you.