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To each their own… or not
Sex blogger Amanda Chatel decided that she was going to talk on a very sensitive subject that she has experienced and knows other women experience that they may be uncomfortable admitting. Amanda just does not like the feeling of a tongue on her vajay-jay. And that’s okay-kay.
Even though we’re living in pretty advanced times when it comes to being open about sexuality, not liking a certain typical sexual act can get you weird looks and questions about why you’re so uptight. The thing about getting it on is that you’re supposed to enjoy it, and if that means not doing what everyone else is doing, then so be it.
Every woman should take pride in her body and own her sexuality
Bad Place
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Anti-Oral
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Amanda started meeting men that wanted to give her oral pleasure because it turned them on, but it just turned her off more. “In cases where the guys I was dating all but begged to go down on me, I’d cave and let them, but I never enjoyed it. It felt wet and sloppy, as if the guy had zero clues as to what he was doing (many of them didn’t). And combining that sensation with my insecurities, it just became something that wasn’t my scene.”
She tried thinking of other things like what errands to run the next day while they did the deed on her.
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All the Anti-Oral Ladies
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Embrace Your Preferences
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Amanda concludes by saying, “So whether you love it, hate it, or are somewhere in middle, embrace that and don’t feel like you need to make apologies or justify it to anyone.”
Sexuality is a completely personal, subjective issue, and there’s no shame in saying you simply aren’t comfortable with certain things.
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Original by Emily Hingle
