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Do. Not. Want.
Adult films will always be inspiring, especially to young males who are still learning skills and techniques. For younger generations, many think that intercourse in adult videos is what’s it is like in real life. While guys may think that jackhammering a woman as hard as they can is the way to get her off properly, it rarely is.
Making love is about including various foreplay, proper oral, and communication. So, just because a paid actress is pretending to love all the degrading stuff happening to her, one should have their own boundaries.
If a man tries to pull a fast one on a female partner, dangerous, gross, and/or offensive things may happen.

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The DP

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There’s a good amount of double penetration in porn, though few women ever even think about that. Even with a liter of lube, all the flexibility in the world, and the highest pain tolerance, that is something that should be left to the pros.
Get down there

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One may see adult stars go straight for pipe to vag contact, but what no one ever sees is the behind-the-scenes prep. People in XXX productions get prepped and readied to go off-camera with lube, “flutters,” and other rumored erection helpers that guys probably don’t think about.
In real life, there needs to be something more… like eating a girl out. Not only does head make women wetter, it makes them even hornier.
Oral Eyes

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During blowjobs, lots of porn stars stare into the camera for long periods of time (which is creepy). The occasional glance up is appreciated, though.
Facials

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Like with all sex acts, every woman is different. Some don’t mind if you come of their faces. However, if you both don’t agreed on it first, it can be found degrading.
Plus, it is super hard to clean up. If you’re into that sort of thing, suggest that he come on your breasts or butt.
Raw Doggin’ It

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Make him wear a condom! Make him get tested!
I know that male porn stars don’t wear protection, but they go through constant and rigorous testing often. The “she looks clean, though” logic is unacceptable and dangerous.
If a male friend tries to go in without protection, remind him of the lumpies, oozies, owies, and itchies he could get on his thing. Have him Google image search STIs on penises if necessary.
“Slut” and “Whore”

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“Take it all, you whore!” isn’t something a man can just say randomly during sex, unless a girl is into it. They say the oddest things in pornos, and some men just pick up on the language, assuming all women are nymphos.
Stay Put

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In adult films, those men toss the women around like ragdolls. While fast and furious is fun sometimes, women normally just want to stay in one position for more than 30 seconds. Repetition of a good rhythm is the key to the female orgasm.
Dat Azz

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Not every woman has experimented with anal play. So, when he is just trying to force his way into the bootyhole, it is not only rude, but it can be excruciatingly painful the woman. (Like, sex-ending, curl up and crying for an hour painful.)
Hair. Nowhere.

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Men and women of porn shave everything below their neck it seems. Not only is this costly and time consuming, it’s something that deserves serious consideration. Dudes who shave their bits and pieces can get nicks that invite STIs.
Your body, your choice though.
Threesome

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Bringing another woman home, be it a friend or stranger, is something that must be discussed way beforehand. He can’t just show up with some rando broad and expect you to all of sudden be a bisexual sex-fiend.
Jackhammering

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You know what else sucks about being jackhammered? Getting all dried out. Getting dried out leads to extreme discomfort and even pain.
Tell him to take it easy and inform him that he might “break” his penis. Penile fractures are real and serious. They require immediate medical attention and possible surgery.
Oral Education

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Lot of women in porn can deep throat those giant wangs. However, most women in the world have gag reflexes. If he won’t stop pushing on your head while you are giving him head, tell him he can end up with puke on his genitals. If that doesn’t work, use your teeth as a defense.
Slapping

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There’s a difference between getting your butt spanked and being slapped in the face while you are riding him. If you have kinks like BDSM, that’s totally cool, but don’t smack someone across the face when they are not expecting it.
Spit Polish

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Guys in adult films love spitting on a girls clit then rubbing it like they are trying to start a fire. That’s not how the clitoris works… The sensitivity is different for every woman. It requires finesse.
If an inexperienced guy tries to do this to you, ask him how he would feel if a women dry jerked him off really fast and tight.
Size

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The average man is not as well endowed as porn stars and most women aren’t size queens. So, men shouldn’t be using porno moves to make up for the difference.
Keep enjoying all the porn you want… Just makes sure your real life partner treats you with respect. Communicate about your sexual needs and keep practicing safe sex!
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Original by Chewy Boese