At the age of three, I already didn’t want to be a girl. I saw from watching my mom what it was like to be a grown-up girl and it didn’t look good. Here are the few memories from childhood that I hadn’t managed to suppress: We came home once to find our apartment ransacked by […]
There was nothing wrong with her. She was not to blame. She was the apotheosis of lust, comprising every element of cisgendered sex from the grrrl-next-door to the bust-down. I wanted her. I needed her. It’s just that this time — this one time — I couldn’t orgasm. Yes, I loved sex, and yes, I loved […]
Think back to when your parents first told you, as you uncomfortably sat across from them on the couch with sweaty palms, about the birds and the bees. Your mom told you a sweet little tale about how a sperm meets an egg, the egg is fertilized, a baby grows in her stomach, and in nine […]
A new study published in the journal Sexologies confirms what I’ve long known to be true from personal, uh, research: a woman’s ability to orgasm is highly connected to her ability to focus her thoughts on her body. Researchers from the University of Louvain in Belgium studied 251 women of all ages, mostly heterosexual, who are all sexually active. […]
Despite our tendencies towards late night or early morning sex, according to hormone specialist Alyssa Vitti, the peak time for great sex and optimum orgasms is actually around 3pm — an afternoon delight. According to Vitti, mid-afternoon — more specifically 3pm– is when women’s bodies are high in the hormone cortisol, which increases energy and alertness to stimuli, […]
So WHAT happens after 90?! For most people, the signal that getting busy has finally peaked is the orgasm. There’s no wonder “Did you finish?” is a common question after getting it on! We all know about orgasms and it’s probably safe to say that most people really love them, but there’s probably a lot about orgasms regular people […]
So. Thirsty. In 2019, I went through a very long dry spell (about nine months). Apart of side-effects from medications, my bits were closed for business. Because of that, I stopped dating. I stopped touching myself as well. I Googled things like: “Can you become asexual?” I became frustrated with my body because I was […]
Orgasm. Repeat to the 100th power. We’ve heard of mind-blowing sexy times, but these techniques take the cake. The real climax is how many times these women can achieve orgasms during just one sexual experience! Let’s face it ladies, we’ve got a real bad reputation for faking it. But what if all of our frenzy […]
As a 26 year-old woman who has had her fair share of sexual experiences, one thing I can say for certain is that I have matured into a lady that not only knows what she wants, but also is not afraid or shy to ask for it. The other thing I will also admit is […]
