“You didn’t finish, did you?” he asked. “No,” I said. I’ve lied before, but I’m trying to wean myself away from it. Lying only adds a layer of mental unease to any lingering physical dissatisfaction I might be feeling, and assuaging false pride rarely seems like a good deal. The dishonesty (to myself) leaves a […]
Most people have sex in the pedestrian enclaves of their bedroom, on a Wednesday night, after prime-time television but before “The Daily Show.” It’s a simple affair, but it’s beautiful, because it works. The bedroom is a safe space with ALL the creature comforts you want when you’re doing it: clean sheets, water in plentiful […]
So I was a virgin when I met my now husband at age 25 (and yes, that basically makes me a unicorn, I know). Even without experience, I know he’s really great in bed with P in V sex — I get off multiple times — plus he’s always up for helping me get myself […]
Not many of us escape the pressure of feeling anxious about our sexual performance, and many men feel insecure about their ability to last or the size of their penises. As in many other areas of life, though, there is a disconnect between what men think women want in the bedroom, and what women are […]
Sex is great for countless reasons, but sometimes we’re just not feeling it. And it’s OK to not be in the mood sometimes; we all have lives that can get in the way. But if you really want to kick start getting your groove on, there’s lots of things you can do to boost your […]
Getting off in your car is not as easy as it may sound. For those of you who have ever attempted it, you might have noticed the typical difficulties: avoiding hard objects like seats, steering wheels, dashboards, and gear sticks, and getting into a comfortable enough position to actually finish the job at hand. Success […]
JAMES DEEN. You magnificent beast. My boyfriend wants me to peg him. I am nervous and was a bit apprehensive, but I want to give him max pleasure. What Would James Deen Do??? The benefit of butt-fucking someone when you have a penis is that the penis has nerve endings that allow you to feel what that asshole […]
Every man should experience a bi-threeway in their lifetime because time is too short to allow our antiquated ideas of sexuality to bind us. The way our society has viewed gender, sexuality, and the expression of how we see both has never been more progressive. Finally we are beginning to understand that who we are […]
I went on a first date recently and, as it usually does with me, the topic of sex came up. As a 25-year-old woman, I feel like I am just entering a stage in my life where I understand precisely what I am interested in sexually. However, I’ve also come to find out that never […]
