Tag: dealbreaker

Relationships

Dealbreaker: I Got The Runs

Wendy Stokesby:

I met Cute Train Guy en route back to New York just after Thanksgiving. (I’m nothing if not completely uncreative with my nicknames.) With the annual tradition …

Relationships

Would You Date A Guy Who’s Bi?

Wendy Stokesby:

I may be generalizing, but most guys are pretty into the idea of dating a girl who’s bisexual. Because, though it may never actually happen, you …

Relationships

Dealbreaker: She Was A Compulsive Liar

Wendy Stokesby:

Whenever I start dating someone new, they become acquainted with “The Big Three” — the three ex-girlfriends who impacted my life in the most negative ways …

Relationships

Dealbreaker: He Brought A Dog On Our Date

Wendy Stokesby:

“How about the Belmont at 8? It’ll be you, me, and Lulu,” he said. “Who?” “Lulu, my dog? The Belmont has outdoor seating, so I thought …

Relationships

Automatic Online Dating Dealbreakers

Wendy Stokesby:

I’ve been doing the online dating thing for a while. Match, Nerve, JDate, OkCupid, you name it. Generally, I’m a fan. (It feels sort of like …

Relationships

Dealbreaker: He Told Me I Needed To “Be Happier”

Wendy Stokesby:

On our last date, we sat next to each other on the floor of an Afghan restaurant, sharing a plate of kaddo bourani and a bottle …

Love & Sex

Dealbreaker: His Penis Made Me Cry

Wendy Stokesby:

At the tender age of 19, I had only seen a total of four penises: the guy who got into my bed naked after a rave …

Love & Sex

Dealbreaker: The Guy Who Didn’t Want Head

Wendy Stokesby:

Some women would be thrilled to have a guy who didn’t want head, ever, but not me. I knew one guy was not going to be …

Relationships

Dealbreaker: The “I Love You” Guy

Wendy Stokesby:

When it comes to boyfriends, I have never gone for the sentimental type. Maybe it’s because my dad is the sort of guy who likes to …